counselling | couples therapy

themes of trust, intimacy, sexuality, communication, identity, and parenting are just a few areas that may be helpful to explore in couples therapy

 
 
 

Whether you and your significant other are struggling to make time for one another, finding it difficult to communicate effectively or dealing with something a bit heavier, couples therapy (or relationship therapy) can be an effective way to enhance and rebuild your relationship into one that is strong, safe, healthy and grounded.  

Themes of trust, intimacy, sexuality, communication, identity, and parenting are just a few areas that may be helpful to explore in couples therapy. Our therapists can help you and your significant other work through your issues by facilitating open communication and creating a safe environment for feelings to be felt and heard, without taking sides. In this safe space, you and your significant other can work toward hearing each other’s point of view without getting triggered, finding common ground and establishing a stronger bond to move forward together in your relationship. 

Couples therapy can also help couples at times of major life change and transition, such as getting married, moving, career changes, job losses, becoming empty-nesters and caring for aging parents. Our therapists can help you navigate and negotiate these transitions and help explore and honour what each transition means to each partner.

 
 

 

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couples therapy is a useful modality for couples who may be looking to enhance their relationship, address conflicts and challenges, and process experiences that may have had a significant impact on the relationship.

 

 

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FAQ

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Booking a consultation call with a therapist is a great way to answer this. During these 15 minutes, you’ll have the opportunity to share some of your challenges, and hear from a therapist around what might be helpful moving forward to work through these experiences. For more information, check out this link here.

Length of time in therapy is unique for each individual/couple. There are many options including: short-term structured psychotherapy to address and work through specific challenges (6-8 sessions), or longer term psychotherapy to understand and heal symptoms and experiences that have had a significant impact on wellbeing. Additionally, using counselling and psychotherapy as a tool for ongoing self care and mental health can be a lifelong tool for wellness.

Your therapist will likely support and encourage you both to notice how you’re feeling both during and in-between sessions. Beginning to notice and tune into how we feel can begin to answer this. Your therapist is always holding a “big picture” perspective of your health and wellness and may offer recommendation or adjunct treatments to support your psychotherapy process, for example using mindfulness and yoga to support progress in psychotherapy.

Counselling and psychotherapy can be helpful at any age. For parents with infants and young children, being apart of the therapy process can be supportive and help to identify areas of growth for each individual and within the relationship. Children between the ages of 4- 5 may be ready to engage in individual psychotherapy with a therapist who specializes in working with children.

At this time, OHIP does not cover this type of therapy and counselling. If you have extended health care insurance, Social Work and/or Psychotherapy may be covered under your benefit plan (please consult your benefit plan package for more information). For a referral to OHIP covered counselling or other community based resources, feel free to connect with one of our Social Workers.

CBT (Cognitive behaviour Therapy) is one treatment approach and method that has been proven to improve symptoms of anxiety and depression amongst other symptoms. Our therapists are trained and informed on a range of interventions including CBT, DBT, EFT, EMDR, SMT, and Narrative therapy. Each therapist will engage in a comprehensive assessment to support and determine the best approach moving forward. Often times, pulling strategies from a range of treatments can be impactful.

Our therapists are trained and informed on a wide range of interventions and will engage in a comprehensive assessment to support and determine with you the best approach moving forward. Often, pulling strategies from a variety of modalities is impactful. Equally important to the approach used, is what we call the ‘goodness of fit’, or the relationship you experience with your therapist. It is important for you to feel comfortable. Therapy may not always feel easy, but you should expect it to feel safe.

The first session of couples therapy involves both partners. Following the initial couple session, the therapist may have an individual session with each partner to gain an increased understanding of the perspective and challenges each partner holds.